Emosi

Hello...plz don't look down to us just because we're younger than u...or we dont drive a fancy car, as fancy as urs...or because or our wedding is not as grand as urs...or because we don't like to brag bout our life to u...it doesn't mean that we cant afford it, it might be because we don't like to spent on unnecessary things or we like to keep it simple...

Membuat "sesuatu" bersama, xb'mksud ingin menumpang or nk save budget...its just that ktorg prefer nk gather ramai2 so meriah la skit majlis tu..tp klu org dah xsudi, i don't mind...sikit pn xrugi...

Hello makcik, ktorg bkn xmampu ok, nk buat sendiri...so far alhamdulillah, sejak baby ni ade, rezeki ktorg mencurah2..so terima kasih lah makcik..sekian...

Selamat menyambut org baru ...

Alhamdulillah...i've already delivered a cute and healthy baby boy dgn selamatnya pada 18 April 2011, jam 7.05pm...Setelah beberapa hari sebelum tu asyk berkira2 bl baby nk kuar, at last pd pg 18 April tu, ms bgn tdo n nk buat breakfast utk my hb, tb2 rs semacam, n bl cek2 rupa2nya ade darah keluar, tp ms tu xrs sakit pn, so sempat la prepare breakfast n layan my hb smpi die pg keje...

Pastu dah start sakit sikit2, tp only a mild pain so blh tahan lg...so malas la nk kacau my hb at work..

12pm: sakit dah mkn kerap..tp still senyap2 lg, xbg tau my parents or my hb pn...i keep myself active, turun naik tangga, jalan2 keliling rumah, siap basuh toilet lg sblm tu...hehe...

1pm: i started to count my contraction, it came every 15mins...so time ni br call my hb...n blood show mmg still kluar dr pg td, so mmg kne pakai pads... After i called my hb, die pn b'gegas blk rumah...smpi je kat rumah tgk muke aku yg dah pucat thn sakit tu, blh plk die senyum...die kata dah msnye la tu, n xsabar nk jupe baby..blh plk gtu...then after that ktorg call clinic, n mention on my condition, n Dr. suruh dtg clinic for checkup dl..

2.30pm: smpi2 kat clinic n buat checkup, Dr. sahkn opening dah 3-4cm...so ktorg pn diberi surat utk terus admit to labour room...

3.30pm: my journey at labour room started, then salin baju n everything, pastu die srh brg atas katil...

4.30pm: Dr.sara pn dtg n bl die check again opening dah 5cm...but air ketuban blm pecah lg, so die decide utk pecahkn air ketuban tu... once air ketuban dah pecah, contraction mkn kuat...but alhamdulillah sakit yg aku rs xde la seteruk yg experience org2 lain kat blog diorg, maybe i was ready mentally after reading their experience...sampai Dr n nurse pn risau tgk aku, blh plk diorg tanya "U ok farah, awak rs sakit ke x ni"...hehe...sakit la Dr..tp xkan la nk srh meraung2 plk kn?

5.++pm: ms ni dah agak lost track of time da...sbb tgh thn sakit...luckily my hb is by my side..n the nurse r very friendly n patient..yela name pn b'salin kat swasta kn..berani diorg nk tengking2...tp sorg akak nurse ni mmg baik la..siap crkn air selusuh dr blk sebelah utk bg aku mnm...ms ni opening dah 7cm

6.30pm: opening dah 9cm, aku da mula rs urge utk meneran..so Dr sume dah get ready, n this time my hb pn dah xsenang ddk...but yg plg touching skali bl my hb bisik yg die maafkn semua dosa2ku n halalkn mkn mnm ku, then he kiss my forehead n cheek...huhu...luv u b...n then mula process utk push baby kluar...n btw pushing tu byk kali jg lah lost of breath...but alhamdulillah org disekeliling byk encouraged especially my hb...always by my side n never let go of my hand...

7.05pm: Alhamdulillah akhirnya semuanya selamat...right after baby kluar, die trs hand the baby to me...ms tu rase mcm diawang-awan gan...mcm xpercaya je..betul ke aku dah jd parents ni? btl ke n baby yg ku kandungkn dlm perut ku ini...when i finally come to my senses, then i touch my baby's hand...terasa sayu sgt...Ya Allah, besarnya kuasamu, menciptakn makhluk yg seindah ini...n not to mention, my hb dpt potong tali pusat baby sdr tau =) nasib baik die xpengsan ms tgk byk darah kluar..hehe

so itu la cerita lahirnya seorg bayi yg diberi nama WAN ARYAN NUFAEL, dgn berat 3.68kg (@~@) ptt la ssh sgt mummy nk push awak kuar syg ;p mummy awak ni berat avg 38kg-40kg je ;p tp alhamdulillah semuanya selamat =)

Tour to the labour room

Semalam adalah hari my pregnancy check up... Since i'm already on my 38weeks of pregnancy and we plan to deliver our baby at Senawang Specialist Hospital (SALAM), so kali ni Dr. Saravanan (our O&G) suggest ktorg buat check up kat SALAM, instead at his clinic as usual...

So appointment ktorg pkl 6pm, so we arrived there on time and did the registration, and sempat jg apply for SALAM membership card which entitled 5% discount off medical bill (excluding Dr. fees of course)... Yang kelakar nye ms nk buat registration tu, org kat kaunter tu igt i dah nk kene admit kat labour room... Itu satu, then ms my hb tgh queue up utk byr membership card tu, dtg sorg nurse lelaki bwk wheel chair... can u guest what, he insisted me on crawling up on that wheel chair... byk kali i ckp, its ok i'm still able to walk... ape igt i dah nk t'beranak ke?... blm lg la dear, my baby still xpuas ddk dlm tummy mummy die ;p

ok then, we meet with the Dr. at 2nd floor, spt biasa buat urine test, then timbang berat... can u believed it that now i am 56.2kg... seriously? no wonder i got a feeling like i started to walk like a penguin nowadays(>~<) ...

Then, ktorg pn dibawa msk dlm satu bilik ni.. dlm bilik tu ade 1 katil, 1 mesin ultrasound tu, 1 kerusi, n etc... kalau doktor tu xckp yg itu labour room, serius i would think that its a just an ordinary 1-bedded ward... sbb bilik tu siap ade LCD tu... coz i always imagine that labour room will be scarier with its gloomy and "suram" look... so its pretty comfy after all.. and the best part is, its an individual labour room, means i don't have to share the scream of another women ;p but still, the feeling that i'm already in the labour room resulted with my BP goes high... sampai doktor pn t'kejut, and srh nurse tu amik BP skali lg ;p

So skrg ni, we're almost done with all the preparation utk menyambut org baru ni... just tggu baby nk keluar je, then we're gonna be a FAMILY... so baby, bila baby nk keluar ni, papa & mummy dah xsabar =)

Khasiat surah Al-Fatihah

I found this usefull info that could be apply on everyday basis =)

From Dr. Fatma's tafsir Al-Quran class (How to use the Surah Al Fatihah)

1. To make someone (YOUR Husband, your children) think of you all the time
* Read the Al-Fatihah 14 times before going to sleep.

s.

2. For terminal diseases:
* Read the Al-Fatihah 41 times and blow it in the water. Drink and take a bath with that water.

3. For the mentally ill:
* Read the Al-Fatihah 7 times while rubbing the person's head once in the morning and once at night, everyday without fail.

4. When in extreme pain:
* Read the Al-Fatihah 3 times and blow it in a glass of water and drink it.Then, read the Al-Fatihah while rubbing the area that is in pain.

5. For babies who cry at night or at any time:
* Read the Al-Fatihah 7 times while rubbing the baby's head.

6. For injury : ex: Cut, Bee sting, Bleeding, Finger got slammed by the door
* Read the Al-Fatihah 3 or 7 times, using your thumb, take your saliva from the "langit-langit" of your mouth and rub it onto the injured area.

All of the above INSYAALLAH will work with several conditions:
* Believe that the Al-Fatihah is the best "penawar" for everything
* Read it with full "khusyuk"
* Tawakal to Allah
* Use it with GOOD "niat" /intentio

Tanda-tanda hampir bersalin...

Ha'ah..i found this one from ratuhati.com... tot it could give some guidance ;p

1. Bayi turun ke bawah
Perut menjadi ringan sekitar dua minggu sebelum kelahiran kerana kepala bayi sudah pun 'turun' ke dalam kawasan rangka tulang pelvis. Anda mungkin terasa:

• sakit di bahagian kelangkang kerana bayi menekan.  (hmm...slalu rs mcm kebas2)
• kerap membuang air kecil semasa ini kerana bayi menekan pundi kencing (yup)
• sakit perut, memulas (yup)
• kerap buang air besar (hmm..due tige hari ni mcm diarrhea plk)
• kerap terkentut (xperasan plk...ke malu nk mengaku ;p)

2. Keluar lendir pekat atau keluar darah bercampur lendir

• Lendir pekat seperti gam lekang dari laluan pintu rahim apabila pintu rahim mula menipis.
• Lendir bercampur darah pula keluar apabila pintu rahim mula membuka. Boleh berlaku beberapa jam atau beberapa hari sebelum bersalin. Segera ke hospital.
• (so far lendir tu ade, tp darah tu blm ade lg)

3. Sakit belakang

• Bayi beralih dan menekan tulang belakang anda.
• Untuk mengurangkan sakit belakang anda, posisikan diri anda seperti merangkak (tapi jangan merangkak ke depan!), dan angkat atau tinggikan badan anda ke atas, tunggu kiraan 5 dan rehatkan badan anda. Ulangi lagi.
• Anda juga boleh mengurangkannya dengan banyakkan berjalan. Ia juga akan mempercepatkan kelahiran anda.
• Jika sukar untuk anda berjalan, minta suami anda urut belakang anda dengan kuat semasa anda berbaring mengiring. (ahhh..yg ni best =) )

4. Pecah air ketuban
Air ini biasanya keluar dengan banyak dari vagina. Warnanya jernih, tanpa bau. Segera ke hospital.

5. Pintu pangkal rahim terbuka dan menipis
Doktor akan melakukan pemeriksaan vagina. Pembukaan di bahagian pangkal rahim atau servik dikesan dengan skala 1 hingga 10.

6. Kontraksi yang tetap dan berterusan
Kira kontraksi atau pengecutan otot rahim anda. Buat jadual.

7. Bila Perlu ke Hospital
Segera ke Hospital untuk kepastian doktor bila:

• kontraksi 5 minit sekali selama 1 jam. (datang lebih cepat jika anda tinggal jauh. Anda pasti tak mahu bersalin dalam kereta. :-) )
• keluar air ketuban.
• pergerakan bayi menjadi kurang kerap.
• keluar darah dari vagina.
• apa saja masalah yang dialami.

hmm..so far tanda2 no 1-3 mmg sedang b'laku skrg.. no 4 tu krg pasti, esk ade cek up dgn doktor so boleh la tanye doktor cane... hmmm..harap2 semuanya selamat...insyaAllah =)

Is it time yet?

Last night my baby being so active.. even when the time i'm about to sleep, he is still with his activity, kicking, punching, swimming, "elbow"ing n wat so ever thing dat he did inside my womb... yeah sure its uncomfortable, but i'm lovin it, since i know dat my baby is doing good n healthy...

I couldn't remember wat time i finally fall asleep, but remember dat i wakeup at 12.30am to go to the toilet n then hit my pillow again zzzzz ;p juz after then dat i realized that my pants is wet, and when i look at the clock its now 1.15am... i'm pretty sure that i did not "pee"  on my bed since i already go to the toilet half an hour before, and i don't feel any urge to go "pee"... Could it be that my water juz broke? but i didn't feel any contraction or pain... then i tot of  waking my hubby (hb) up, eventho he's like half awake, coz he's just being disturbed while in a deep sleep, his seem shock and excited.. but then we decide to go back to sleep and to wait for the next sign, since there's only a small amount of water that come out..and it don't even wet the bed...

My hb really hope that the baby would come out last night since my water broke (its more like a leakage nway) and i had a terrible diarrhea yesterday, he said that its some of the sign that you are near your labour... but it did not happen that way.. but i had a sleepless night, and i actually did experience a slight pain on the stomach and my back, but i choose to ignore it, coz my biggest concern is, wat if i had to go into labour at that moment..huhu..i'm afraid if i'm not ready yet....

Despite of my sleepless night, i had a sweet moment this morning... where my hb hold my hand and kiss my forehead to wake me up for subuh prayer... he even kiss my tummy and had a talk with the baby... owh soo sweet... love u b..

And this morning he had to go to work, half hearted... he called me once every hour to check on my condition, and he told me that he hate being apart from me during this moment (and theres go my heart melt ;p)... Sabar ye syg, the baby will come out eventually, when he is ready to come out =) whatever it is, i love u my hb syg ;p

"Budak Botak"

This post is dedicated to my dearest hubby...Seriously it have nothing to do with living things..."Budak Botak" here is referring toooo......

Taa daaa.....

You must be wondering why did i call "him" budak botak, this is b'coz the look from the back make him look like a notty "budak botak" (i juz loved calling it that way ;p)...

 See what i mean? or is it just me??? maybe the look without the spoiler make him look notty..errrrr....whateverr... Nway this is my B 1st car, which he bought by his own money... it have been serving us for about 5years..there's too many  memories with this car, it have been with us in few stages of our life; dating, married, and now we're gonna have a baby...

I still remember the first time he pick me up with this car is during my diploma graduating dinner...i was quite surprised since the car is just out from the showroom + annoyed at the same time coz we were late for the dinner ;p

This is also the same car that my B used when we get married... this is also the car that we used to go for our first time pregnancy checkup, where i was +ve preggy..there's just too many loving moments happen in this car + there's also many argument take place in this car as well (did u remember my dear)..haha...

I know how much my B love this car, he've spend quite an amount of money for this car modification, but i guess he love me and our future baby more, therefore he tot that we have to let this "budak botak" go...and to get a more comfortable family car... if only we can afford both of the car...but we can't, so decision have to be made, and he's now belong to someone else....some pics of in loving memories "Budak Botak" ;p

 ~rindu nk tgk b "godek-godek" enjin ni~

 ~rindu nk letak handbag n my things kt tgh2 ni~

~m'beri servis buat kali t'akhir~

 ~n taa dahh..his new baby~